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There are most certainly poly people out there, but I think the matter is that they are not aware that there is something like for them.
My partner and I have been thinking and talking about the logistics of setting up a real poly household in a modern day living space.
For us, I think that a MFF relationship would be most optimal, however, the place I foresee things going crazy is that we are already an established couple. Meeting someone single, who is interested in being part of a poly relationship with an established couple seems difficult.
I want us to meet someone together, not one of us meet someone and then introduce the other...
Just a few thoughts I am throwing out there to get the discussion going!
PandaSpoon wrote: I want us to meet someone together, not one of us meet someone and then introduce the other...
Just a few thoughts I am throwing out there to get the discussion going!
That is a point on which i must agree with you - I have been down that path of trying to introduce a new partner, only to have it end in disaster.
Introducing a new partner is fine, if you are like a lot of folk out there who don't want their partners to interact with each other (case in point - at a poly gathering in the past one of my then partners was explaining how we all went on holiday together and it shocked the majority of those involved in the discussion that we as a family could do such a thing - to me it seems that those who just did not get it, seemed to more into serial monogamy - "have as many lovers as you like, but don't involve me")
So I guess back to the point - if you want your partners to interact with each other, it really has to be a case of all parties being involved from the outset of the relationship.
Hi I am brand new on this site and forum on 3-1-2017. Some of the posts seem quite dated but nevertheless here I am my name is Graeme though my username for the site is flightsimmer. The reason why I have joined this site is to become part of the Polyamorous community. All my monogamous relationships have failed and I suppose out of loneliness for frends I have turned to this alternative lifestyle. I suppose that is about it for now and hope to be around a lot more
